Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Is it safe to guess that you have never surfed, right?
(Same applies to dirt biking, and street skateboarding)
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hobbies as DHVs
- Thread starter davidsonj73
- Start date
(Same applies to dirt biking, and street skateboarding)
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
zekko
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I agree these things shouldn't be done to impress women, they should be done organically because they are interesting to you. Impressing women is just a happy coincidence. I guess if someone is looking to woo women, that doesn't help too much. Other than that maybe if you see a leadership void, perhaps you can fill it?
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Being a house Club DJ will...but it wasn't a hobby to me it was full time job and I fvcking loved it...it honestly became a lifestyle.
Spending your days at the record store on Tuesday(Imports) and Thursday(Domestic) to try and snag any gems that might be there before a competing DJ does, then practicing your craft, working on new mix CD demos to send out for potential bookings in other cities, etc.
Hanging out at clubs with other DJs on their nights when you aren't working building your network, then working 2-3 nights a week. Rinse and repeat.
Seems like a lifetime ago but it was the best 10 years of my life.
The women came with it but that had zero to do with me getting involved with it.