"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hobbies and Ways to Naturally Meet Girls? Dancing?

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@SW15 Interesting. Israel definitely shares the same patterns.

@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?

@Millard Fillmore Good point, I'll definitely consider it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hamurabimbi

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@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?
Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.
 

Hamurabimbi

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Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.
I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.
 

Scaramouche

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I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.
Hi Hamurabimbi,
What was the game?...Catch me if you can?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, you said you don't have any interest in dancing, and this is a shame because if you are a good-looking man who is a good dancer, you'll slay it.
You start with dance lessons, and when you are skilled enough, you use your new skill on the dance floor at a dance party/Live music dance event around your city/town, where women are desperate for a good dance partner. And from there it's easy; Kino is there from the get-go; flirting and making connections is a walk in the park.
Really, it's a no-brainer.
 
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