"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hobbies and Ways to Naturally Meet Girls? Dancing?

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@SW15 Interesting. Israel definitely shares the same patterns.

@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?

@Millard Fillmore Good point, I'll definitely consider it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hamurabimbi

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@Hamurabimbi Do you get to hang out with gamer girls directly in game conventions and gaming social circles? If so, are any of them attractive? How would you go about finding and joining one as an outsider?
Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.
 

Hamurabimbi

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Sure.
If you want to and they want you to.

Yes.

Many game stores have message boards as well as open gaming nights.
Many cities have game conventions held at hotels for 3-4 days.
Getting into a SS is like any other SS.
I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.
 

Scaramouche

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I forgot to mention. I lost my V-card at a game convention when I was a youngin.
Hi Hamurabimbi,
What was the game?...Catch me if you can?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, you said you don't have any interest in dancing, and this is a shame because if you are a good-looking man who is a good dancer, you'll slay it.
You start with dance lessons, and when you are skilled enough, you use your new skill on the dance floor at a dance party/Live music dance event around your city/town, where women are desperate for a good dance partner. And from there it's easy; Kino is there from the get-go; flirting and making connections is a walk in the park.
Really, it's a no-brainer.
 
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