hmmmm I feel like I just got lied to here

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

PuertoRican_Lover

Banned

Jun 14, 2005

Originally posted by NewMan
Either she wants to fvck you or she wants you to "Listen"....

if she wants to fvck you, it doesn't matter if you listen or not.

If she doesn't want to fvck you - then listening to her bull Sh#t makes no difference.

So at the end of the day, just don't listen to their moaning and groaning - because it matters not.

Haha, good one!

Too bad he lives with her and has to hear this shyt whille he lusts for her on a daily basis- but she sees him as a "roomy" and not a pimp!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.