Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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hmmmm back in the field seems i've dried out some

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okay I used to lead the convos where i wanted em when but now it seems like I've became too romantic and shyt, I have NO PROBLEM getting a damn number or kiss close all that good stuff. but after about three days of talking non stop they f**king disappear off the face of earth. SO HERE IS THE BIG REFRESHER I NEED!!!

okay wtf how should I come off in convo texting Versus calling, like should I text more often or ****ing text a little and call once every other day what are your successful ratios?

I dont like to hide that im attracted cause i dont want to be their LJBF. but I keep remembering not to compliment them lets talk about this some if we can!

i dunno add whatever else you want to cause I was once doing it all so well but I've been brainwashed by the evil best friend ****ing ex!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mikeymic said:
after about three days of talking non stop they f**king disappear off the face of earth.
3 days of nonstop talking would make me f**king disappear from real girlfriends, let alone girls that I'm just beginning to date. That's too much, bro...nobody has that much to say.


okay wtf how should I come off in convo texting Versus calling, like should I text more often or ****ing text a little and call once every other day what are your successful ratios?
Just to put things in perspective...if it's a girlfriend of like 4+ months, I might call her twice a week just to chat. If I'm calling her more than that, it's to setup a time to see her. Like, "Hey, what's up? You home? I'm coming over."

So, no. When you're in the beginning stages of attraction, you should not call a girl every other day. Maybe call her once per week, and preferably you should arrange a date during that call so you don't have to call her again.

And texting? I dunno. I don't do the big back-and-forth texting thing.

Let's say that while on a date, I told the girl about some new job I got. Maybe 2 days after, I'll send a text like "What's up. New job is awesome. There's an office dog!" Then the girl will respond, "Sweet! Don't get bit!" And that's the end of the convo. You don't wanna be doing these long azz text convos...that's for high school girls. Call her once a week. Maybe text twice (once, if you have more self control).

Being unavailable raises your value. Talking/texting a girl 4-5 days a week...that's boyfriend s***. And, like...a corny boyfriend. Not a cool one. And you're not even seriously dating these chicks yet, right? So you gotta ease off a bit.
 

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haha listen to this guy. i appreciate it i also had a wine black and mild the other day the taste hit me and i remembered alot of things! sounds crazy but i smoked them and studied back in the days. but yeah everyone of these girls are back after me again. one wants me at a party tonight. another to the movies fri. another riding around sat. and sun theres one who loves giving massages and having threesomes with her gf. listen to this guy y'all
 

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well seems to turn out they all and i mean all text me and wanna hang out. just cause i don't really text much. maybe a laugh or two and then thats it no saying goodbye or anything. they'll miss you soon and text if not there can easily be fifty more texting behind them
 
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