"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmmmm back in the field seems i've dried out some

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okay I used to lead the convos where i wanted em when but now it seems like I've became too romantic and shyt, I have NO PROBLEM getting a damn number or kiss close all that good stuff. but after about three days of talking non stop they f**king disappear off the face of earth. SO HERE IS THE BIG REFRESHER I NEED!!!

okay wtf how should I come off in convo texting Versus calling, like should I text more often or ****ing text a little and call once every other day what are your successful ratios?

I dont like to hide that im attracted cause i dont want to be their LJBF. but I keep remembering not to compliment them lets talk about this some if we can!

i dunno add whatever else you want to cause I was once doing it all so well but I've been brainwashed by the evil best friend ****ing ex!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mikeymic said:
after about three days of talking non stop they f**king disappear off the face of earth.
3 days of nonstop talking would make me f**king disappear from real girlfriends, let alone girls that I'm just beginning to date. That's too much, bro...nobody has that much to say.


okay wtf how should I come off in convo texting Versus calling, like should I text more often or ****ing text a little and call once every other day what are your successful ratios?
Just to put things in perspective...if it's a girlfriend of like 4+ months, I might call her twice a week just to chat. If I'm calling her more than that, it's to setup a time to see her. Like, "Hey, what's up? You home? I'm coming over."

So, no. When you're in the beginning stages of attraction, you should not call a girl every other day. Maybe call her once per week, and preferably you should arrange a date during that call so you don't have to call her again.

And texting? I dunno. I don't do the big back-and-forth texting thing.

Let's say that while on a date, I told the girl about some new job I got. Maybe 2 days after, I'll send a text like "What's up. New job is awesome. There's an office dog!" Then the girl will respond, "Sweet! Don't get bit!" And that's the end of the convo. You don't wanna be doing these long azz text convos...that's for high school girls. Call her once a week. Maybe text twice (once, if you have more self control).

Being unavailable raises your value. Talking/texting a girl 4-5 days a week...that's boyfriend s***. And, like...a corny boyfriend. Not a cool one. And you're not even seriously dating these chicks yet, right? So you gotta ease off a bit.
 

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haha listen to this guy. i appreciate it i also had a wine black and mild the other day the taste hit me and i remembered alot of things! sounds crazy but i smoked them and studied back in the days. but yeah everyone of these girls are back after me again. one wants me at a party tonight. another to the movies fri. another riding around sat. and sun theres one who loves giving massages and having threesomes with her gf. listen to this guy y'all
 

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well seems to turn out they all and i mean all text me and wanna hang out. just cause i don't really text much. maybe a laugh or two and then thats it no saying goodbye or anything. they'll miss you soon and text if not there can easily be fifty more texting behind them
 
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