"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SikWitIt

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So im talkin to this girl known her for like 3 days, I see her today she says hi then she says come here, and she shows me this peice of paper and it has sum dudes number on it, She says sum guy gave it to her, and she had asked him what it was he said open it and find out.

So she said she laughed at the guy, and i asked her if she was gonna call him she said no lol. Why would she tell me this?

Anyway she caught me staring at her a little to long and she goes (what?) So to recover i say "Your just so pretty" She starts laughin and covers her face with her hands and puts her head down blushing i guess.

So a little later im like your hair looks better in red she does the same thing again, so i say you have sexy lips too she's just laughin im like can i kiss them, same **** but she never said no.

So what i think about all of this is she's diggin me. Am i right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by SikWitIt
Am i right?
No. Absolutely not.

Are you kidding me?

I'm not even joking man... it sounds like she's laughing at you.
 

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Hey man sorry to say but she thinks your freaky. This just shows that you completely missed the entire point of neg hits and being a challenge. Trust me, i've made this mistake before, she is not digging you.
 

LikRetsam

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What exactly have you got to lose? See what happens.
 

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Can I kiss them, dont lose the mood, go for it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SikWitIt

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Originally posted by Supero Masculus
Hey man sorry to say but she thinks your freaky. This just shows that you completely missed the entire point of neg hits and being a challenge. Trust me, i've made this mistake before, she is not digging you.
No sorry your wrong, I asked her what she was doin this weekend she said nothin. So i said why dont we go out then she said ok and i got her number.


So ther mwhahah


But wher do i take her, not the movies cant even talk to her ther
And all i got is 20$ lol, any suggestions
 

Bombshell

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Go out for coffee or bowling. How is $20 not enough? You should never pay for any chick on the first few dates.

Oh yea btw if you keep that compliment **** up then you are going to get dumped on your *** by her shortly. She was probably attracted to you before and that mistake was probably not enough to demolish all of it but if you keep it up you will either be dumped, cheated on, or used. Especially whith the type of personality she has. GO read the DJ bible!
 
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