hmmm test?

[mtlwlu]

I was talking to a girl over instant message, a girl who I hooked up with. Anyways Id like to think Im mastering reading girls and what not and gotten a lot better at it. but...


This one got me in a loop and needless to say I was sweating for a bit (still am...)

her: I got cheated on twice by my ex bf
me: we can both agree heart break sucks then
her: ya, it does, but this isnt anything serious so why does it matter.

I thought we were going somewhere special. I still have a date with her, so is this a sign that she doesnt see a potential future with me. Am I just waisting my time?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

This doesn't sound good.. I would just pretend like the convo never happened.

For some reason I hate using instant messenger now.. I used to like MSN or Yahoo but avoid it the plague these days. I think it does more harm than good.

What did you say to her next?

 

[mtlwlu]

dude exactly what I just did lol

her: no awkwardness though...like I still love going to the bars with you and such...
me: why would there be? nothing happened.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

She just said that now? In that case, tell her to meet you at the bar.

 

[WC2]

Ha, I hope you actually didn't take this to heart.

Women say things all the time that are just complete BS.

In fact, I find that the women who do say this ARE the ones who are looking for something. They just want to get on "your level" and make sure that she isn't too ahead of things.

Completely ignore that comment. It isn't a test, it's just plain BS. Not all women are looking for relationships, but you can bet most women are always looking for a potential partner or at least FB at all times. It's in their nature to latch on. What they say doesn't mean squat. Ultimately their feelings take over any logic they claim to have.