"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmmm.. Rather big problem that I need corrected.

arcilitei34

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My Gf and I have been dating for awhile now, and as of last monday I lost my virginity. First time it happened the whole condom thing and me going limp happened, that sucked. Second time I had sex was 2 days afterwards, I managed to make her cvm twice(as it left a terrible mess on my bed). But my main problem was, I couldn't cvm at all, it was strange.. IT felt good, but It felt as if i was getting stepped on in the pubic region. Foreplay lasted about 45 minutes, sex lasted for about half an hour and a little more, I just couldnt cvm. I mean, i've heard stories of guys having sex and just busting a couple minutes once they're in, but for me.. it's different. There's no doubt that my gf feels bad for not being able to make me cvm, and I certainly feel bad for not being able to cvm either. What's wrong with me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth Player 056

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Your Fine

This is a classic sign of sexual nervousness. I take it you were tense and kind of nervous. I was actually reading up on this online and it says "primarily virgin males upon having sex their first time USUALLY wont be able to produce and ejaculatory liquid" Now that uve been through it twice im sure youll be more relaxed and be able to ***. later bro

-Smooth-
 

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Did you go limp after or you went limp before you had sex in that you could not keep it up b/c of anxiety?
 

08aisaac

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congrats on losing your virginity. don't know how you managed not to cvm. Did you have a viscectimy. Are you on acutane? it is an acne medication and that is one of the side effects.
 

arutha

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Jeez mosty people would want to go half an hour without having to stop from ejaculating..

Take her from behind, then when you've had enough pull out and drop a wad of spit on her a$$ so she thinks you've blown.:cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PiHiPlaya

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I didn't cvm when I lost my cherry. It's not like I wasn't trying and I was in total control.

I don't think it was anxiety or nervousness. I think it was my penis wasn't used to a real vagina or a condom when all it had to arouse it was my hand and the occasional girls mouth for the last 4 years.

Also, the first 2 times my friend did it he didn't reach the point. And it was with 2 different girls. You'll get there, eventually.
 

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i have the same problem, cept i havent lost my big V yet but ive had numerous BJs amounting to nothing =
 

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You shouldn't have felt bad about it, i mean it was HER FAULT RIGHT!!!!

She'll want u even more now, because girls hate it when they cant please you sexually so they'll try harder and stay with you.

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