"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hmmm.. Rather big problem that I need corrected.

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My Gf and I have been dating for awhile now, and as of last monday I lost my virginity. First time it happened the whole condom thing and me going limp happened, that sucked. Second time I had sex was 2 days afterwards, I managed to make her cvm twice(as it left a terrible mess on my bed). But my main problem was, I couldn't cvm at all, it was strange.. IT felt good, but It felt as if i was getting stepped on in the pubic region. Foreplay lasted about 45 minutes, sex lasted for about half an hour and a little more, I just couldnt cvm. I mean, i've heard stories of guys having sex and just busting a couple minutes once they're in, but for me.. it's different. There's no doubt that my gf feels bad for not being able to make me cvm, and I certainly feel bad for not being able to cvm either. What's wrong with me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your Fine

This is a classic sign of sexual nervousness. I take it you were tense and kind of nervous. I was actually reading up on this online and it says "primarily virgin males upon having sex their first time USUALLY wont be able to produce and ejaculatory liquid" Now that uve been through it twice im sure youll be more relaxed and be able to ***. later bro

-Smooth-
 
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Did you go limp after or you went limp before you had sex in that you could not keep it up b/c of anxiety?
 
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congrats on losing your virginity. don't know how you managed not to cvm. Did you have a viscectimy. Are you on acutane? it is an acne medication and that is one of the side effects.
 
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Jeez mosty people would want to go half an hour without having to stop from ejaculating..

Take her from behind, then when you've had enough pull out and drop a wad of spit on her a$$ so she thinks you've blown.:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't cvm when I lost my cherry. It's not like I wasn't trying and I was in total control.

I don't think it was anxiety or nervousness. I think it was my penis wasn't used to a real vagina or a condom when all it had to arouse it was my hand and the occasional girls mouth for the last 4 years.

Also, the first 2 times my friend did it he didn't reach the point. And it was with 2 different girls. You'll get there, eventually.
 
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i have the same problem, cept i havent lost my big V yet but ive had numerous BJs amounting to nothing =
 
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You shouldn't have felt bad about it, i mean it was HER FAULT RIGHT!!!!

She'll want u even more now, because girls hate it when they cant please you sexually so they'll try harder and stay with you.

Derek Vitalio 's reader
 
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