hmmm.. help me out

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

Well. You see, i'm not sure anymore.. about my girlfriend. Things are getting old. I love her and all but.. i want something different.

See we've been going out for about 10 months the 16th of this month and my intrest is going out... I just want to be single. I had so many opportunities to make out with other girls at parties but shes holding me back because I dont want to cheat on her. Even though I had once which was a while back but I dont want to tell her about it cause she would never talk to me again. (For those of you remember, i made out with some chick who cant kiss for $hit and i risked getting my ass kicked by her dad heres the link for those of you who dont know lol http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57803 )

So I'm not sure what to do.. etheir A.) waiting for her to dump me because i'm not to manly about doing it myself or B) just stick with her.

See shes REALLY REALLY attached and I dont want to break it off with her and so yeah.. I need help

 

[WesCottII]

Dude. You gotta follow your gut. If you aint happy, you have to leave.

 

[Andromax]

Yeah man you are 16.. there will be many, many, many women if your life, throughout your adolesence and adulthood. Don't be too attatched to one at this point, especially when you want something different.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

What would jack sparrow do? GROW SOME BALLS and live how you WANT.

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

but HOW do i break it out to her?

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

So your willing to let your happiness slowly fade away just so you can keep her happy?

Perish the thought.....

Dump her, she WILL find someone better for her. I use this context because your not helping her if you don't want her. Look at it as doign her a favor. Your letting her go so she can find someone who truly wants to be with her.

I believe that if you would explain it to her from this point of view she won't be as "heartbroken." And if you REALLY mean this stick to it and be a man.

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

I finnally did it.. thank you for your help everyone.. especially you InsidiousNstinct ...

now her friend is threating to kill me.. Bummer.


Liz wrote:
Feb 20, 2005 12:33 PM

wtf you telling rosy all this **** huh? fuk i fukin swear to god. im going to fuking kill you, i aint ****ing around! she ****in gave up everything for you, and for you just to come up w./ **** like that? huh? i fukin swear if i see you im going to fukin stab the sh!t out of you!!!i aint fuking around luis

 

[WesCottII]

Tough break. Obviously i don't know the bird, so i have no clue as to wether she'll go through with it. Otherwise, in me experience, these things blow over soon enough.

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

Heres what I wrote to her friend

From Luis:
Feb 20, 2005 12:39 PM

please liz, shut up and listen. Like I didnt give up everything for her too? Shes not the only one here.. I aint coming up with no ****. Its all the truth..

So did she tell you everything?

I said I was willing to let my happiness slowly fade away just to keep her happy. How would you feel if you were in my situation? I'm letting her go so she can find someone who truly wants to be with her. I loved her, I meaned it. Times change, people change. Its the way of life. If your gonna kill me.. than it was nice knowing all of you. I'm sorry. I truly am.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

wtf you telling rosy all this **** huh? fuk i fukin swear to god. im going to fuking kill you, i aint ****ing around! she ****in gave up everything for you, and for you just to come up w./ **** like that? huh? i fukin swear if i see you im going to fukin stab the sh!t out of you!!!i aint fuking around luis

Isn't funny if a man dumps a girl because he's not happy he's commited some sort of sin. On the other hand...if a girl does it...she's just wanting some space, and you should be oh so respectful of that.


You did what you knew you had to do. You have no regrets...don't let this "liz" girl make you feel like you've done something wrong. I'm guessing this girl is your ex's friend and the reason why she is making such a big deal out of it.


All in all....aslong as you know deep down inside you made the right decision you don't have to answer to anyone except yourself

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

Yup, no regrets. But I do feel like sh!t.. oh well..

Its a start of a new beginning.