OMG dude! That same thing happened to me. I didn't have the oneitis, but that sounds just like a girl I went out with once. In the middle of the date, we were talking and she says "This isn't a date, right? I mean, we're just hanging out." I was like "Um..... yea, I think it is." She went on talking about what we were saying before.
She never got close to me during the whole thing. We were walking thru the parking lot, and a car was coming toward us, so I put my arm around her and headed off to the left. She went to go right, but then came with me because I was holding onto her. Then when the car was gone, she put that space between us again. At the end of the night, all I got was a hug. A side-hug, at that, with just one arm. Go figure.
Then everytime I talked to her after that, she went on and on about how much fun she had, and that we should definately do it again, soon. So, I believed what she said and tried to plan another date. It never came to pass.
She still calls me sometimes, and we talk about stuff. She says that we need to hang out again, and more often. I agree, but then I suggest something to do, and she has to work. Recently, she told me she got fired, so she should have lots more free time, but I'm not holding my breath for her. I say she's just a high school girl that doesn't know what she wants. Whatever.
