Me and my friend are getting together to "jam" in a few days. lame date idea? Yes. How the hell am I going to work with this? Of course, we used to be pretty close friends and all so it's fine as a fun thing to do together, but that leaves no time for much conversation or anything. No chance to show her I've changed and I'm no longer an AFC. Any ideas of how I could make this more interesting?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
hmm made a date difficult to work with...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
.... thats all you asked, need advice on somethin else?MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Don't bother with her.... Find other chicks... You seem like you got something to prove to her.... That pretext will already spoil your game...