Me and my friend are getting together to "jam" in a few days. lame date idea? Yes. How the hell am I going to work with this? Of course, we used to be pretty close friends and all so it's fine as a fun thing to do together, but that leaves no time for much conversation or anything. No chance to show her I've changed and I'm no longer an AFC. Any ideas of how I could make this more interesting?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hmm made a date difficult to work with...
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- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
.... thats all you asked, need advice on somethin else?MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Don't bother with her.... Find other chicks... You seem like you got something to prove to her.... That pretext will already spoil your game...