"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmm, I'm at a loss!

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I have been on the look out for almost 6 months around here for a girl that I like, I found a few that turned out to be flakes/biatches and nexted them fast. The last 3 months though have been completely dry! I haven't seen a single girl that I might even be remotely interested in, and I'm becoming impatient :( any ideas on how to come out of this "drought"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Nexted" ??? What the hell is that :D
Start hanging out in new places would be the best advice, or just take what you can get. High School is the time to explore anything you can get your hands on, good or bad.
 
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I am not going to lower my standards just because I am not having any luck, if I lower my standards I somehow feel society has won one over on me which is a bad thing :)
 
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Then don't *****! :)
I would try going to new places, new hang out spots etc etc.
Don't worry something will come up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AIR-PILOT: How about you not call me a *****? I think I've tried the new places thing and it works a little but still nothing I want yet

Mr.Debonaire: I do hit out of town parties and yeah there are some good one-night stands, but I'm looking for something that'll last longer than that-- and personally a girl giving it up to me within 24 hours is actually a turn off.

la la la peace bbl
 
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