"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmm, I'm at a loss!

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I have been on the look out for almost 6 months around here for a girl that I like, I found a few that turned out to be flakes/biatches and nexted them fast. The last 3 months though have been completely dry! I haven't seen a single girl that I might even be remotely interested in, and I'm becoming impatient :( any ideas on how to come out of this "drought"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Nexted" ??? What the hell is that :D
Start hanging out in new places would be the best advice, or just take what you can get. High School is the time to explore anything you can get your hands on, good or bad.
 
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I am not going to lower my standards just because I am not having any luck, if I lower my standards I somehow feel society has won one over on me which is a bad thing :)
 
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Then don't *****! :)
I would try going to new places, new hang out spots etc etc.
Don't worry something will come up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AIR-PILOT: How about you not call me a *****? I think I've tried the new places thing and it works a little but still nothing I want yet

Mr.Debonaire: I do hit out of town parties and yeah there are some good one-night stands, but I'm looking for something that'll last longer than that-- and personally a girl giving it up to me within 24 hours is actually a turn off.

la la la peace bbl
 
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