"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hmm help with a girl

dereklovesugly

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Well first off, I've read the forum/pages for a while now. I'm getting to DJ status but not quite there yet. Here's my dilemma :

I met a girl through friends/chatted with her thru facebook for a bit over the summer. Well finally one day we set up a date cuz I wanted to see Bruno (terrible idea/movie). It sucked bad but we did get a little chat in. Well, I asked her to get something to eat after and she said she just ate (aka didn't really wanna hang out that bad). So eff, I thought I had blew it by doing a gay typical first date and not making really any move other than CF.

So I back off, give her a lil space. Couple weeks later I talk to her and tell her about a party. She seemed interested. That night I CALL (**** texting for the most part) her and she says she'll go. I have an R6 (motorcycle, girls love em) that I pick her up on. It's her first time on a bike and I do some badass stuff and she liked. We get to the party, have a fun time. Before we go home I kissed her and it was on. We hung out again and whatnot.

Next week we go to a concert on a double date type thing and I blow it badddd. I'm all over her like a pansy. We don't hang out for a bit. Come to find out she's been seein someone all along (which I had been too).

A month later she comes over we watch a movie/kiss/cuddle and I'm all over her AGAIN! ****. We kinda stoped talking again and I kinda still like her. I'm still talking to other girls.... what should I do to try to set up another date with her?

ps sorry for such a long ass story. Thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dereklovesugly

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no I get what you're getting at. I think I just needed to hear someone to tell me stop trying too hard and let things happen.
 
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