"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm a bit of advice needed

619joe

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Aight well story starts off at a party.

My buddy says his gf's friend just got out of a 2 year relationship and is,well,single and wants to meet his friend (aka me). So at this party, I am just naturally a goofy funny guy and end up making a really good impression on her but since they had to leave early I couldnt pull the trigger.

The next few days we talk on msn n text here n there and shes absolutly laughing at everything I say. So all is good.

Then last week, me and her and my buddies gf went to this good vantage point for a view of city and we made out.

We hung out a third time,but as a big group. But this time I decided not to makeout with her but still kept up the kino.

Every since then shes been texting me everyday all the time. Shes specifically said is sick of relationships (although what they say isnt what they always mean I know) and whenever I dont respond for a while (Im not always by computer/phone,i have a life) she says "too busy to text me huh?".Shes also gotten mad at me a few days ago for having to go to sleep at 12:30 cuz I had to wake up early instead of talking to her all night...

Now usually Ive just said "Well i was doing _____" and thats it. Theres no argument. But today we talked on msn, I told her I had go to get a haircut n do some stuff and then she said she was goiing to work later (this was like 1:30). So then I had soccer at 7pm and then when my practise finished she again asked "Too busy to text me eh".

Should I still go for my usual response "Um ya I had soccer...and you told me you had work..." or anyone suggest anything better to further my situation (My buddy originally stated that he found out she wanted an f-buddy)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obviously what you're doing already is working for you. No need to toss it up. She wants a f-buddy, so fvck her.
 

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Just tell her you were busy or whatever you have been doing. Just when you do talk to her try to keep the conversations sexual, and the next time you hang out with her fvck her before she loses interest and finds another guy that will. She admitted to wanting a f-buddy. That mean's she's horny and wants sex NOW. No need to beat around the bush or play games. She's obviously interested, now give her that disco stick.
 

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Alright I went with my line of "You told me you were at work...and I just finished with soccer..." then she says "Im totally kidding 619joe :p how was soccer?"

ok case ended. but if anyone has any tips on an even better way to approach it id like to hear. pce
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont mess with success... and stop overthinking. you have her seeking and pining for you. kino, escalate, ISOLATE (stop hanging with the group all night), and make out. Liquor helps.... and get that FB in the sack.
 
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