"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HIV STD Question

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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squirrels

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Not even condoms are 100% effective at preventing pregnancy!!

I've gone down on 2 or 3 girls who may have been "looser" than I would've liked. Do I worry about catching HIV? Yes. Do I wear condoms whenever I fcuk? Yes.

I've come to the realization that if you worry about STDs and pregnancy and all the awful sh!t that can happen as a result of sex, there's no way around it. You either get laid and take what precautions you can, or you stay abstinent. Either one is a viable solution.

But if RISK is not an option, then you shouldn't be having sex.
 

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What is the big deal about going down on a chick without protection. Why would anyone put themselves at risk like that?
 

Giovanni Casanova

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First off, this deserves to be in Health & Fitness.

Second, the people on this board are woefully ignorant when it comes to STDs. Didn't ANYONE listen in Health Class?

Christ almighty.

Would you all do me a favor and go here:

Guide To Sexually Transmitted Diseases
 
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