"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

squirrels

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Not even condoms are 100% effective at preventing pregnancy!!

I've gone down on 2 or 3 girls who may have been "looser" than I would've liked. Do I worry about catching HIV? Yes. Do I wear condoms whenever I fcuk? Yes.

I've come to the realization that if you worry about STDs and pregnancy and all the awful sh!t that can happen as a result of sex, there's no way around it. You either get laid and take what precautions you can, or you stay abstinent. Either one is a viable solution.

But if RISK is not an option, then you shouldn't be having sex.
 

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What is the big deal about going down on a chick without protection. Why would anyone put themselves at risk like that?
 

Giovanni Casanova

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First off, this deserves to be in Health & Fitness.

Second, the people on this board are woefully ignorant when it comes to STDs. Didn't ANYONE listen in Health Class?

Christ almighty.

Would you all do me a favor and go here:

Guide To Sexually Transmitted Diseases
 
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