"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HIV STD Question

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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squirrels

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Not even condoms are 100% effective at preventing pregnancy!!

I've gone down on 2 or 3 girls who may have been "looser" than I would've liked. Do I worry about catching HIV? Yes. Do I wear condoms whenever I fcuk? Yes.

I've come to the realization that if you worry about STDs and pregnancy and all the awful sh!t that can happen as a result of sex, there's no way around it. You either get laid and take what precautions you can, or you stay abstinent. Either one is a viable solution.

But if RISK is not an option, then you shouldn't be having sex.
 

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What is the big deal about going down on a chick without protection. Why would anyone put themselves at risk like that?
 

Giovanni Casanova

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First off, this deserves to be in Health & Fitness.

Second, the people on this board are woefully ignorant when it comes to STDs. Didn't ANYONE listen in Health Class?

Christ almighty.

Would you all do me a favor and go here:

Guide To Sexually Transmitted Diseases
 
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