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This is not good think. If you wanna sex with your wife you can talk with her.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually, the practice of Sati has been illegal since the 1820s, and with a few rare exceptions, does not occur in modern India. But thanks for playing.Burroughs said:travel through rural India today, woman are very much the property of men...
thats 500+ million women today...in India to this day if a man dies first a wife will jump into the cremation funeral fire because she cannot imagine living without her husband...this connection is the essential glue of society.
Well said.Atom Smasher said:I generally agree with Burroughs' main principles though he states them extremely harshly at times.
A lot of younger guys have a hard time rising above their education and above the era in which they live. When you get a little older you start to perceive time in a completely different way and invisible boundaries start falling away. You start to perceive your era in the world in relation to world history, and you start to see the unnatural contrivances that make up our current day of mass illusion. These contrivances are engineered to keep the sheep blind and obedient, and above all else to keep women in the workforce paying taxes.
That's why many of the younger guys (and some older) recoil at the statement that women are children and must be managed as children. They need correction, guidance, boundaires and they need discipline.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
JohnChops said:Jesus the skinny jean hipsters are so god damn annoying. How do ones balls fit in skinny jeans ?! Is that how swag came to be, dressing to impress women ... Jesus some men are really rhaaatarded
good pointAlvafe said:balls? what balls??
I believe they're called raisins now.Alvafe said:balls? what balls??
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have to confess to wearing them and I wear them because I like them, not because women may or may not like them.JohnChops said:Jesus the skinny jean hipsters are so god damn annoying. How do ones balls fit in skinny jeans ?! Is that how swag came to be, dressing to impress women ... Jesus some men are really rhaaatarded
Because hitting people is immature.Ihateinitiatingalot7 said:why is hitting women immature?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what about hitting someone of your own sex? i often times dream, fantasize about beating up a girl's boyfriend out of jealousy and anger, frustration, i love being a player haterBible_Belt said:Because hitting people is immature.