Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I walk up to them and touch them somewhere like the arm or shoulder and say hey what's up. I make a tiny bit of small talk and say that they look busy and to hit me up when they have time and we can make something happen. Usually I put it in their phone or I write it down somewhere.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hahahahaa f8cking creep
For sure, I don't really discuss any money making Ventures here.
Creep game on a thousand hahaha
Legal is legal hahah
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
15-17 is not legal though.
Man I worry about this, the hot chick in the malls in my are HOT but worries me if I get accused of harassment etc??
Thanks, dude. I give out my number for many reasons. Im lazy with women and it's a pain in the avs to text all of those numbers. I find that the super interested ones hmu eventually
Haha I feel that. I've been experimenting with leaving them my number for a week or so now to see how it goes. I get more results from getting theirs
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How did you handled this?
Gave him a head nod and left
PLEASE record all data. E.g, numbers given, calls received (even much later).
Indeed.
I don't remember much from this day of trying to get laid. But on my most recent one I went into more detail and calculated everything up. U c it?
I was more thinking in terms of days and weeks out, % of numbers given that result with girls calling you etc. over time.
I was thinking a hundred Shock and Awe openers might be interesting.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
