"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hitting the mall - Field Report

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how are you leaving the number?

card, or writing it down for her, what's your method?
I walk up to them and touch them somewhere like the arm or shoulder and say hey what's up. I make a tiny bit of small talk and say that they look busy and to hit me up when they have time and we can make something happen. Usually I put it in their phone or I write it down somewhere.

If she doesn't seem to be doing anything important then I try to take her out of the mall and into my truck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I walk up to them and touch them somewhere like the arm or shoulder and say hey what's up. I make a tiny bit of small talk and say that they look busy and to hit me up when they have time and we can make something happen. Usually I put it in their phone or I write it down somewhere.

If she doesn't seem to be doing anything important then I try to take her out of the mall and into my truck
Hahahahaa f8cking creep
 

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One problem I've run into when doing cold approach in malls is a lot of the girls are like 15-17 years old.

I hit on a 16 year old once and it was kind of embarrassing. She looked mature so I thought she was in her 20's. We got to talking and when I asked for her number she said she was 16. I walked away so fast there was a dust cloud.
 

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Dont forget to focus on yourself and making money
For sure, I don't really discuss any money making Ventures here.

Hahahahaa f8cking creep
Creep game on a thousand hahaha

One problem I've run into when doing cold approach in malls is a lot of the girls are like 15-17 years old.

I hit on a 16 year old once and it was kind of embarrassing. She looked mature so I thought she was in her 20's. We got to talking and when I asked for her number she said she was 16. I walked away so fast there was a dust cloud.
Legal is legal hahah
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One problem I've run into when doing cold approach in malls is a lot of the girls are like 15-17 years old.

I hit on a 16 year old once and it was kind of embarrassing. She looked mature so I thought she was in her 20's. We got to talking and when I asked for her number she said she was 16. I walked away so fast there was a dust cloud.
Man I worry about this, the hot chick in the malls in my are HOT but worries me if I get accused of harassment etc??
 

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you got balls bro lol.


I had luck with this method when I had business cards. Honestly just giving a girl your digits, is not likely to yield alot of results. But if you give them something cool to physically see touch and feel..you WILL get callbacks/texts guaranteed.
 

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Same. I approached a girl who told me she was 14. She was Asian, and it's hard to tell with them.

Also worth pointing out that if a girl of 14 can disqualify me in 30 seconds, then there is no way that any other girl doesn't know what I want. Women who have orbiters pretending they are "friends" are talking complete sh*t.

Approaching during the day (like on a lunch-break around town), cuts down on this almost completely. But it's been a summer school holiday, recent.

Anyway, good stuff @beforeimgone . Though I don't understand why you are giving your number to these girls. I've found that gives far worse returns than taking theirs.
Thanks, dude. I give out my number for many reasons. Im lazy with women and it's a pain in the avs to text all of those numbers. I find that the super interested ones hmu eventually
 

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you got balls bro lol.


I had luck with this method when I had business cards. Honestly just giving a girl your digits, is not likely to yield alot of results. But if you give them something cool to physically see touch and feel..you WILL get callbacks/texts guaranteed.
Haha I feel that. I've been experimenting with leaving them my number for a week or so now to see how it goes. I get more results from getting theirs
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been experimenting with leaving them my number for a week or so now to see how it goes. I get more results from getting theirs
PLEASE record all data. E.g, numbers given, calls received (even much later).

I've got a couple experimental ideas in mind, don't mind send you some more $$$ to try them out.

I think probably most of us could do with upping our game to giving this few fvcks. Inspirational stuff.
Indeed.
 

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PLEASE record all data. E.g, numbers given, calls received (even much later).

I've got a couple experimental ideas in mind, don't mind send you some more $$$ to try them out.



Indeed.
I don't remember much from this day of trying to get laid. But on my most recent one I went into more detail and calculated everything up. U c it?

What experiments did you have in mind
 
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I don't remember much from this day of trying to get laid. But on my most recent one I went into more detail and calculated everything up. U c it?
I was more thinking in terms of days and weeks out, % of numbers given that result with girls calling you etc. over time.

What experiments did you have in mind
I was thinking a hundred Shock and Awe openers might be interesting.

A hundred girls, over a few days where you just walk up, introduce yourself, create rapport (within a couple seconds) and then suggest having sex. No pressure, just ask the question as openly, honestly, and congruently as you can, and then give her the option of saying yes or no. If she says no, say thanks and bounce. You'd have to be ultra polite, so they wouldn't think they were being pranked or something. If they got angry, they might call the cops.

The data would be how they responded, whether they tried to get you back as you walked away, any counter offers made, etc.

IF you wanted to make this a REAL DEAL kind of thing. You'd document it all on YouTube, not the asking, but a quick "check in" after every ten girls, with a quick data update, plus about a minute before hand explaining the experiment.

If you did this every couple of weeks, (or once a week) and always pointed people to your gofund me page (from your YT channel) (asking for travel money to keep this experiment going) you might even be able to do this for a living.

A different city each week, etc.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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