"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hitting on foreign girls

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
 

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
Hitting on foreign girls
I don't advise on physically beating any women - whether foreign or domestic!! :rolleyes:
 

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
if you want a foreign girl get a pair and leave canada. she is in canada now. i would demand that she speak english (or french) to me. let me guess, she is from eastern europe?
 
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Then you teach them English, and help them. You are to help them learn English and get integrated into English vocubulary, especially the slang language that they dont teach them in ESL class so you can give her a better and richer understanding of the English language.

Let me illustrate and example:

Hi, do you know what fvck means - let me teach you, let's do a demonstration ok, teach you word fvck, ready? Ok, here's how to do it.

later.... she goes..." ooh I understand what it means, ok fvck me again"

That's how you hit on foreign girls.
 
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