Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hitting on foreign girls

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
Hitting on foreign girls
I don't advise on physically beating any women - whether foreign or domestic!! :rolleyes:
 

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
if you want a foreign girl get a pair and leave canada. she is in canada now. i would demand that she speak english (or french) to me. let me guess, she is from eastern europe?
 
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Then you teach them English, and help them. You are to help them learn English and get integrated into English vocubulary, especially the slang language that they dont teach them in ESL class so you can give her a better and richer understanding of the English language.

Let me illustrate and example:

Hi, do you know what fvck means - let me teach you, let's do a demonstration ok, teach you word fvck, ready? Ok, here's how to do it.

later.... she goes..." ooh I understand what it means, ok fvck me again"

That's how you hit on foreign girls.
 
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