"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hitting on foreign girls

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
Hitting on foreign girls
I don't advise on physically beating any women - whether foreign or domestic!! :rolleyes:
 

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DiSt0rTi0n_07 said:
OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.

One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.

How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
if you want a foreign girl get a pair and leave canada. she is in canada now. i would demand that she speak english (or french) to me. let me guess, she is from eastern europe?
 
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Then you teach them English, and help them. You are to help them learn English and get integrated into English vocubulary, especially the slang language that they dont teach them in ESL class so you can give her a better and richer understanding of the English language.

Let me illustrate and example:

Hi, do you know what fvck means - let me teach you, let's do a demonstration ok, teach you word fvck, ready? Ok, here's how to do it.

later.... she goes..." ooh I understand what it means, ok fvck me again"

That's how you hit on foreign girls.
 
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