"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hittin on college girls

average joe2003

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yea, is that common among this general field? what do I do to go out with older girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by average joe2003
yea, is that common among this general field? what do I do to go out with older girls?
The same thing you use to go out with younger women and women your age.
 

ShizamDaMan

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College girls are easy man. They're more willing to talk than high school chicks and a lot more accepting/mature. I was at college for 6 weeks this summer, and my success rate with girls I met there was seriously 100%. I came back to my hometown and it's work to get a damn date for this weekend.

Been talking to a few girls I met at college lately too. One wants me to drive out to her house and spend the night. We just gotta work out a time to have a good time :D
 

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Yeah believe it or not, girls dont care about age too much if you can mack on em good, ive only gotten 1 college girl(weeeeel i only got too 3rd base but still) but yeah just deal with em like any normal girl
 
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