"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hit on a 9 over the weekend in nyc and then

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Wound up getting my azz kicked by her Chad boyfriend who I didn't even know they were a couple.

Situation was embarrassing as all hell. Chick was giving me all sorts of IOI signs so I randomly cold approached her and next thing I know I got cold clocked, hit the ground and looked up. Standing over me was this perfect specimen of a man and her holding her hands to her mouth laughing at me.

Even worse no one did or said anything to help me. I had wet myself a bit and got up, walked real fast to the exit and didn't know what to say so I just yelled I'll sue your fuvckin azz!! (My voice cracked too as I yelled) And ran to my car. Never going back to that spot again.

Be safe out there guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wound up getting my azz kicked by her Chad boyfriend who I didn't even know they were a couple.

Situation was embarrassing as all hell. Chick was giving me all sorts of IOI signs so I randomly cold approached her and next thing I know I got cold clocked, hit the ground and looked up. Standing over me was this perfect specimen of a man and her holding her hands to her mouth laughing at me.

Even worse no one did or said anything to help me. I had wet myself a bit and got up, walked real fast to the exit and didn't know what to say so I just yelled I'll sue your fuvckin azz!! (My voice cracked too as I yelled) And ran to my car. Never going back to that spot again.

Be safe out there guys.
Why not press charges? Send his a$$ to jail.
 

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Hey NN, how was that oyster spot? Lonely?

I couldn't make it. You know us Hebrews can't eat shellfish especially on the holy holiday. Raincheck?
 

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Why not press charges? Send his a$$ to jail.
I'm not a snitch. Though these forums should have a self defense section for all my cold approach bros should a similar emergency situation happen to them.

All is fair in love and war i guess. A true soldier lives to march on and fight another day
 
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I'm not a snitch. Though these forums should have a self defense section for all my cold approach bros should a similar emergency situation happen to them.

All is fair in love and war i guess. A true soldier lives to march on and fight another day
I would call the police in 1 second.

Can you shoot him in defense? Then the law protects HIM, doesn't it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ughh. Useless trolls
 

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In light of my recent traumatic experience I believe I’ve developed severe approach anxiety. I was thinking of paying a jacked friend to bodyguard me during random approaches. I’d have to discuss his price. Any other things I could try to get over my fear since my encounter this past weekend?
 
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