"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hit on a 9 over the weekend in nyc and then

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Wound up getting my azz kicked by her Chad boyfriend who I didn't even know they were a couple.

Situation was embarrassing as all hell. Chick was giving me all sorts of IOI signs so I randomly cold approached her and next thing I know I got cold clocked, hit the ground and looked up. Standing over me was this perfect specimen of a man and her holding her hands to her mouth laughing at me.

Even worse no one did or said anything to help me. I had wet myself a bit and got up, walked real fast to the exit and didn't know what to say so I just yelled I'll sue your fuvckin azz!! (My voice cracked too as I yelled) And ran to my car. Never going back to that spot again.

Be safe out there guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wound up getting my azz kicked by her Chad boyfriend who I didn't even know they were a couple.

Situation was embarrassing as all hell. Chick was giving me all sorts of IOI signs so I randomly cold approached her and next thing I know I got cold clocked, hit the ground and looked up. Standing over me was this perfect specimen of a man and her holding her hands to her mouth laughing at me.

Even worse no one did or said anything to help me. I had wet myself a bit and got up, walked real fast to the exit and didn't know what to say so I just yelled I'll sue your fuvckin azz!! (My voice cracked too as I yelled) And ran to my car. Never going back to that spot again.

Be safe out there guys.
Why not press charges? Send his a$$ to jail.
 

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Hey NN, how was that oyster spot? Lonely?

I couldn't make it. You know us Hebrews can't eat shellfish especially on the holy holiday. Raincheck?
 

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Why not press charges? Send his a$$ to jail.
I'm not a snitch. Though these forums should have a self defense section for all my cold approach bros should a similar emergency situation happen to them.

All is fair in love and war i guess. A true soldier lives to march on and fight another day
 
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I'm not a snitch. Though these forums should have a self defense section for all my cold approach bros should a similar emergency situation happen to them.

All is fair in love and war i guess. A true soldier lives to march on and fight another day
I would call the police in 1 second.

Can you shoot him in defense? Then the law protects HIM, doesn't it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ughh. Useless trolls
 

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In light of my recent traumatic experience I believe I’ve developed severe approach anxiety. I was thinking of paying a jacked friend to bodyguard me during random approaches. I’d have to discuss his price. Any other things I could try to get over my fear since my encounter this past weekend?
 
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