"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hit me with your 2014 To-Do List!

skinnyguy

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My primary concerns are working out and making money. That's what makes me happy no matter what. Women don't make me that happy, as I have discovered. Most of the bishes I date are crazy, and then I regret even going after them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Irishcrusader95

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This is the year i'm going to really turn things around

- Complete David D's courses and build them into my character
- Become self confident and more positive in my outlook on life
- Get laid
- Make my first photography portfolio and start my own website
- Spend each month on a specific personal development area- January: Communication skills
- Become my ideal self
 

JohnChops

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No more keyboard jockeying . Action is the place.
Let's hop into this year :

1) Ace all my classes as usual
2) get over 205lbs in the off season
3) (for later in the year around April) shred to 7% BF
4) build my super moto with my klr
5) get back into web design/htmlcss
6) study for mcats (this should be higher)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gunner26

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1. Finish university with a good degree.
2. Keep playing football
3. Keep going gym and put on some good weight
4. Eat healthier
5. Start writing (anything)
6. Look into travelling abroad/taking a gap year upon completing uni
7. Get laid
8. Be more ballsy/trust my instincts more

Gunner
 

VladPatton

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First and foremost, I need to stop hanging out with fückin retards that do nothing for my life. You become the company you associate with!
 
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