My primary concerns are working out and making money. That's what makes me happy no matter what. Women don't make me that happy, as I have discovered. Most of the bishes I date are crazy, and then I regret even going after them.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hit me with your 2014 To-Do List!
- Thread starter Dan08
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Irishcrusader95
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This is the year i'm going to really turn things around
- Complete David D's courses and build them into my character
- Become self confident and more positive in my outlook on life
- Get laid
- Make my first photography portfolio and start my own website
- Spend each month on a specific personal development area- January: Communication skills
- Become my ideal self
- Complete David D's courses and build them into my character
- Become self confident and more positive in my outlook on life
- Get laid
- Make my first photography portfolio and start my own website
- Spend each month on a specific personal development area- January: Communication skills
- Become my ideal self
I found the following equally important : http://www.jimcollins.com/article_topics/articles/best-new-years.html
JohnChops
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Let's hop into this year :
1) Ace all my classes as usual
2) get over 205lbs in the off season
3) (for later in the year around April) shred to 7% BF
4) build my super moto with my klr
5) get back into web design/htmlcss
6) study for mcats (this should be higher)
1) Ace all my classes as usual
2) get over 205lbs in the off season
3) (for later in the year around April) shred to 7% BF
4) build my super moto with my klr
5) get back into web design/htmlcss
6) study for mcats (this should be higher)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
1. Finish university with a good degree.
2. Keep playing football
3. Keep going gym and put on some good weight
4. Eat healthier
5. Start writing (anything)
6. Look into travelling abroad/taking a gap year upon completing uni
7. Get laid
8. Be more ballsy/trust my instincts more
Gunner
2. Keep playing football
3. Keep going gym and put on some good weight
4. Eat healthier
5. Start writing (anything)
6. Look into travelling abroad/taking a gap year upon completing uni
7. Get laid
8. Be more ballsy/trust my instincts more
Gunner
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
First and foremost, I need to stop hanging out with fückin retards that do nothing for my life. You become the company you associate with!