I went on a first date with a girl and I thought we had good chemistry. The only issue is she's really shy, I felt like I was talking the whole time and not hearing a lot from her. Hooking up was average, she made an attempt at a handy but I didn't come. She was wet before I put my hand down there, so she was turned on for sure. Problem is i'm feeling a huge lull. girl is beautiful, chill, but almost too chill... we have barely talked the two weeks since hooking up. I've heard from my friend that she is actually quite funny but she is always either shy or uninterested to me. what do I do... im confused as ****. also im taking her to prom and i actually think it will be boring because of how nonchalant she acts toward me.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hit it off fast, but... getting bored?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
When you're alone with her be goofy, tickle her (by blowing on her belly with your mouth). This will get her in that light-headed child-like state that we all love. Don't worry, opening up takes time, and it'll happen as you drop your own egoic barriers.
Thanks, that sounds like good advice Learning. I've heard from her past boyfriend that he broke up with her because she wanted to hang out. I'm feeling the same vibe... it's like she's disinterested. She takes no initiative to talk to me at school either. The only interest she's shown is when hooking up, and that may just be because shes horny from not having a bf for such a long time...
I'm just not sure if she's worth my time pursuing her. I'll see what happens at prom, or if she doesn't want to hang out again.
I'm just not sure if she's worth my time pursuing her. I'll see what happens at prom, or if she doesn't want to hang out again.
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Skyline
Master Don Juan
It sounds a lot like she just wants to be friends with benefits. Which is a damn good thing. You're looking for a serious relationship though, which she doesn't appear to want.asianbboy said:
My advice to you, is to basically keep things how they're going now and once you find another girl that you're interested in and have received positive vibes, THEN replace her. Just do what she's doing and keep it on the DL, after all you're the one getting some p****y