Ok.. so I've been here a while... on and off but probably only taken this seriously in the last few months.. and the results have been amazing. I've met and fClosed (on second meet) a girl from a supermarket, fClosed one gilr while on a mini holiday, had sex thown at me from various UGs that I didn't really want and generally improved my game rediculously... (Don't worry I still have room to improve.. but I have no doubt that over time.. because of commitment everything will fall into place)
Anyway.. one thing I noticed was that I couldn't pickup when I was in a bad state.. ie: Good state - Open 5 set and get phone number. Or open street mixed set (2 gilrs, 2 guys) and walk away with girls numbers. All good. But bad state.. I never used to open anything.. well till today.. Today : Open lone wolf at train station with something as exciting as "Hey is the train late?" and opened some girls at a mall with "Hey do you guys know if these stereos paly MP3s".. Yep totally lame.. Anyway I've noticed that my good state is ****ing cool.. whereas my ****ty state is still AFC.. and why? Because I have never done anything while I was in a negative state.
Since last night I have put my phone times on 24hrs. It gets reset to 24hrs every time I do an approach. The approach has to be done before the 24hrs expire.
I don't know what its like for you guys.. but I think this should be a good tool to get me used to approaching concluding etc. no matter what the state. Enogh of wastng valuable open opportunites because I didn't feel "right".
Anyway.. one thing I noticed was that I couldn't pickup when I was in a bad state.. ie: Good state - Open 5 set and get phone number. Or open street mixed set (2 gilrs, 2 guys) and walk away with girls numbers. All good. But bad state.. I never used to open anything.. well till today.. Today : Open lone wolf at train station with something as exciting as "Hey is the train late?" and opened some girls at a mall with "Hey do you guys know if these stereos paly MP3s".. Yep totally lame.. Anyway I've noticed that my good state is ****ing cool.. whereas my ****ty state is still AFC.. and why? Because I have never done anything while I was in a negative state.
Since last night I have put my phone times on 24hrs. It gets reset to 24hrs every time I do an approach. The approach has to be done before the 24hrs expire.
I don't know what its like for you guys.. but I think this should be a good tool to get me used to approaching concluding etc. no matter what the state. Enogh of wastng valuable open opportunites because I didn't feel "right".