Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And this is the perfect configuration for her to kick you in the groin...blinkwatt said:I would say the best response if she hits you would be to hold her arms apart like a t(this will make you come within kissing distance as your body with make a t with hers). Now the defualt move would be to say "play nice" and push her away after or... you could kiss her if she is she decent looking. The kissing part depends on alot ie crowd,she has a bf and so on.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i hate women like that that gose back to the man right now i don't have a girlfriend and my mom said that if i smacked a bit#h in the face should would love me but i'm a gentle type of guy but i would hit a women if she really tried to hurt metryin 2 play said:chris rock: "i wouldn't hit a girl, but i would shake the sh!t otta the b!tch...showe her who's boss" hhhahaaha.
Hey what are your thoughts on a girl that goes back to a guy that has hit her twice in the past? A freind of mine went back to her ex boyfriend. He once punched her hard enough in the leg to make her cry, because she couldnt get on a jet ski. Another time he slapped her across the face because she was "annoying him" She said she was balling her eyes out after that. Get this: her mother said, well you pobably shouldnt have annoyed him. This girl must be freakin crazy right????? or am i just weird for thinking that? Hitting a girl is wrong!!!!