"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
hit a girl?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It must have made you feel very big getting the respect of a girl for standing up to her like that, I guess it would have been a much different story if it had have been some big tough streetfighter dude who was straight out of prison who had sprayed you with water, :trouble:
If you're a 5'0 dude and hit a 6'0 dude you should expect to be knocked on your ass.
So if a woman hits someone and gets knocked on her ass as a result... good. You play with fire you get burned.
You still can't really do it since the law is slanted towards women and most of you are brainwashed into thinking women are so fragile and need protected.
My gf has a former friend from college that started a big fight with a guy and provoked everything and even after getting kicked out still came running back with the INTENT of getting the guy in trouble with the law (and she admits to it) and of course the guy is the one who had charges on him and she didn't get crap.
So if a woman hits someone and gets knocked on her ass as a result... good. You play with fire you get burned.
You still can't really do it since the law is slanted towards women and most of you are brainwashed into thinking women are so fragile and need protected.
My gf has a former friend from college that started a big fight with a guy and provoked everything and even after getting kicked out still came running back with the INTENT of getting the guy in trouble with the law (and she admits to it) and of course the guy is the one who had charges on him and she didn't get crap.
Socialreject
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Well to be perfectly honest...
I think i would never hit a woman, even if they attacked me. I've had a woman attack me before... for no obvious reason, she just started pounding me!
. I just grabbed her arms and pinned them behind her back... then walked her to the door and had the bouncers eject her.
I don't really see a reason to "hit" her in a context like this. Violence should ALWAYS be your last resort! I've done the pinned arm thing to guys aswell when they started to push me around. I always avoid voilence as much as i can. Sometimes you HAVE TO defend yourself, the rest of the time it's perfectly possible to resolve the situation without using your fist!
If you are dealing with an especially obnoxious b!tch you could also just use their own weapons against them! I had one such a crazy b!tch charged with assault and battery. She was an ex of a friend, i was the one who talked some sense into his head and so he dumped her! She got all crazy on me and violent, so i provoced her into hitting me. I let her hit me in the face twice and then retrained her and reported her to the police. Cops were sort of mocking me but i didn't give a fvck, i wanted a mark on her record!
Don't get angry, just get even ;-)
I think i would never hit a woman, even if they attacked me. I've had a woman attack me before... for no obvious reason, she just started pounding me!
. I just grabbed her arms and pinned them behind her back... then walked her to the door and had the bouncers eject her.I don't really see a reason to "hit" her in a context like this. Violence should ALWAYS be your last resort! I've done the pinned arm thing to guys aswell when they started to push me around. I always avoid voilence as much as i can. Sometimes you HAVE TO defend yourself, the rest of the time it's perfectly possible to resolve the situation without using your fist!
If you are dealing with an especially obnoxious b!tch you could also just use their own weapons against them! I had one such a crazy b!tch charged with assault and battery. She was an ex of a friend, i was the one who talked some sense into his head and so he dumped her! She got all crazy on me and violent, so i provoced her into hitting me. I let her hit me in the face twice and then retrained her and reported her to the police. Cops were sort of mocking me but i didn't give a fvck, i wanted a mark on her record!
Don't get angry, just get even ;-)
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
And this is the perfect configuration for her to kick you in the groin...blinkwatt said:
:crackup:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tryin 2 play
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chris rock: "i wouldn't hit a girl, but i would shake the sh!t otta the b!tch...showe her who's boss" hhhahaaha.
Hey what are your thoughts on a girl that goes back to a guy that has hit her twice in the past? A freind of mine went back to her ex boyfriend. He once punched her hard enough in the leg to make her cry, because she couldnt get on a jet ski. Another time he slapped her across the face because she was "annoying him" She said she was balling her eyes out after that. Get this: her mother said, well you pobably shouldnt have annoyed him. This girl must be freakin crazy right????? or am i just weird for thinking that? Hitting a girl is wrong!!!!
Hey what are your thoughts on a girl that goes back to a guy that has hit her twice in the past? A freind of mine went back to her ex boyfriend. He once punched her hard enough in the leg to make her cry, because she couldnt get on a jet ski. Another time he slapped her across the face because she was "annoying him" She said she was balling her eyes out after that. Get this: her mother said, well you pobably shouldnt have annoyed him. This girl must be freakin crazy right????? or am i just weird for thinking that? Hitting a girl is wrong!!!!
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
well i will be honest i don't like to hit girls but i did hit my sister she pisses me off more than anybody and uses what's called fighting words i don't but we haven't fought in a year but the last time we did she tried to make it like it was my fault when i told her to get out of my room so i could get some sleep but the only way i would hit anywomen nowadays is if they threaten to kill me or somebody i loved
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
i hate women like that that gose back to the man right now i don't have a girlfriend and my mom said that if i smacked a bit#h in the face should would love me but i'm a gentle type of guy but i would hit a women if she really tried to hurt metryin 2 play said: