"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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History, why society is beta

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I hear a lot of talk about the feminine imperative, and how all guys are born into a world shoving the beta mind frame up there arses. 100% right. I want all guys to have game, but, a lot of people (men) forget/ignore why the feminine imperative came about. 100-200 years ago being a woman was not a good thing to be, and men weren't too nice to them either.

I just think it's important people remember that this current matriarchy (if you want to call it that) is a response to the harshness of the previous ruling patriarchy. Males are now suffering for their past behaviours. I just hope one day we can all be free from it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cervantesscthree said:
I hear a lot of talk about the feminine imperative, and how all guys are born into a world shoving the beta mind frame up there arses. 100% right. I want all guys to have game, but, a lot of people (men) forget/ignore why the feminine imperative came about. 100-200 years ago being a woman was not a good thing to be, and men weren't too nice to them either.

I just think it's important people remember that this current matriarchy (if you want to call it that) is a response to the harshness of the previous ruling patriarchy. Males are now suffering for their past behaviours. I just hope one day we can all be free from it.
yes sir you are right! although you might have some dudes come in this thread start bashing you for this!

if you also study history you see how men were cruel to woman in the past! dont wanna get in to detail but it was really fvcked tup for them! not only that but fathers forcing there young daughters to marry powerful old man they didnt want to marry just to secure more power them selfs withing there family trees and other senseless sh!t they went through!
 

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MidnightCity said:
apex fallacy.

the average woman "back then" didnt have it much worse than the average man.

you cant attribute the atrocities of the few ruling class men of bygone eras to the whole of men.

cut the self-hate out and go get yours
:rockon:

I completely overlooked that, very true. I wonder if the universal bashing of men in history by society is intentionally applied to all men of the past, rather than just the one's who were in power? Hmm . . . food for thought.

Although still, there are times in the past (e.g witch hunts in Europe) where you were better off being male rather than female, in some parts of the world anyway.
 

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cervantesscthree said:
:rockon:

I completely overlooked that, very true. I wonder if the universal bashing of men in history by society is intentionally applied to all men of the past, rather than just the one's who were in power? Hmm . . . food for thought.

Although still, there are times in the past (e.g witch hunts in Europe) where you were better off being male rather than female, in some parts of the world anyway.
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MidnightCity said:
apex fallacy.

the average woman "back then" didnt have it much worse than the average man.

you cant attribute the atrocities of the few ruling class men of bygone eras to the whole of men.

cut the self-hate out and go get yours

Nailed it. Despite what TV/public schooling tells you, women never had it "worse" than men.

Sperm has always been cheap and eggs always expensive. There's never been a time in history where it's been different. Burning a few mentally unstable liabilities for the long term betterment of the tribe is hardly comparable to the millions of men used as cannon fodder to coal miners. It's not even in the same ballpark.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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