"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thegator39

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I'm having the guys over for football in a couple weeks, and have been thinking about hiring a HB to play stripper and brings out snacks to the guests. Anyone done such a thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thegator39

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Not to impress, just to be our personal slut as far as serving food naked, lap dances, etc.
 

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Tricking off to impress huh? Pathetic. Go find a girl who's actually interested in you. Impress yourself before impressing your friends.

Case closed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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john_trenor

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Foot ball, food, drinks what else could you ask for. What you are proposing to do makes you almost forget about all of the other things that I listed before. Right on I think you are going to make name for yourself amongst your friends. Just be carful they might want to come back every year.

Starting receiver Roscoe Parrish from the Buffalo's got taken out It's a little ironic because I was rooting for either new york or chicago. Seems like this injury put a stamp on the Bares. Buffalo's 22-19 loss to the Chicago Bears in Toronto kind of made me didn't even make it a debate. I live in chicago now so I suppose that I should be going for the Bears any way.

Any way good luck with the foot bool game.
 

Ice882

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unlike everyone else sh1tting on you for not following "T3H CODE!!!!111"...

I think it'd be pretty damn fun, unless you guys were to get uncomfortable -- because if that situation gets uncomfortable at all, it gets VERY uncomfortable.

Otherwise do it.
 

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I'm pretty sure they won't mind after all men watch sports to relax and to feel some exhilaration. If anything it will make things more exhilarating. It might be hard to concentrate on the game.

On the other hand you could also invite someone for chit chat. It’s not easy to make women feel good in a conversation, especially when it comes to foot ball. however there is much more to it when it comes to trying to date them. The only difference is that worse looking women are not use to getting wonderful comments. Good-looking women on the other hand will brush you off if you use the same strategy.
 

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I'd recommend you save the $ for taking a trip, buying a house, or a car repair, but what do I know?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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