"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HipHip music for a party
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Anything that has "pimp", "azz", "booty", "b*tch" etc... in the lyrics is all good...Kas said:
a few examples:
50 Cent - Candy Shop
50 Cent - In Da Club
Eminem - Shake That
Usher - Yeah!
Sean Paul - We Be Burnin
...
And so many others, perfect if you want get the ladies to start freaking/grinding...
I would stay away from anything that's too gangsta though, hearing gunshots through out the songs might get some guys' adrenaline pumping, but it definitely doesn't get the ladies in the right mood if you see what I mean...
LouBrication
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-2 live crew- hoochie mama, shake a lil sumthin, Me So Horny
-Luke - Scarred
-Mc Shy D - Shake It
-Salt n Peppa - Push It
-Deuce - Daisy Dukes
-Gucci Crew - Sally
-Dj Smurf - Ooh Lawd
-Sir Mixalot - Baby Got Back
those song always get people movin... and if you wanna play the new songs just get whatever they're playing on the radio right now... most of the songs with ying yang twinz are good clubbing songs...
Vanilla Ice: Ice Ice Baby
MC Hammer: Can't touch this
It ceases to amaze me the reactions these songs produce ~16 years after their release. Nevertheless the girls will go crazy unless your actually having a gangster party. Then they'll tear you limb to limb.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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American_Psycho
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its old but never a party without it..."salt shaker"s good too
timbaland n nelly f.-promiscuous (its not real hip hop but i think girls will like it)
young joc-its goin down
busta rhymes- touch it
deep side ft. r kelly-lets make love (new song)
sean paul-temperature
if u listen to Da Musicianz CD, they hav alotta party songs there....
and theres a bunch of other songs but other people can help u too..
o...get this song if u can. its new and its HOT
r. prophet ft. mannie fresh- run tell the dj
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Juvenile Feat. Mannie Fresh & Lil' Wayne - Back That Ass Up
Mariah Carey Feat. Jay-Z & Young Jeezy - Shake It Off (Remix)
Usher Feat. Twista - Nice And Slow (Booty Bass Remix)
Pitbull - Toma
Bubba Sparxxx Feat. Ying Yang Twins - Ms. New Booty (I hate it too, but hey)
T.I. - Bring 'Em Out
Splack Pack - Just Shake That Ass
Or you could go down the Techno line of things, that stuff is always a hit.
Eric Prydz - Call On Me
Vinylshakerz - One Night In Bangkok
Darude - Sandstorm
Beatfreakz - Somebody's Watching Me (Hi Tack Edit)
Benny Benassi - Satisfaction
Public Domain - Operation Blade
Or you could just tell the females to rack off and put on some Guns 'n Roses :rockon:
That is like me saying... Whoa man, leave the computers to the white people. CH CH CH. After all, white people made 'em? :nono: Seriously, that is the dumbest ass arguement ever.CrazyGuy said:
Seriously man, the vanilla ice song idea is good, haha get's people laughin'. Ask other people to bring their own mix CD's too.
Haha well if you notice 95% of the music artist in rap/hiphop are BLACK!All the artist you guys are naming expect for vanilla ice are BLACK!Its the FACT hip hop is part of black culture and you whitepeople enjoy it,so respect blackpeople for their music it aint your music.Wee said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Of course, it is impossible to think of it as "people's" music. Nah, we gotta separate everyone by their race and color of their skin, right? Thank you for setting the end of racism back another 50 years. "But it is ok when black people separate from white people, not the other way around" It is a nasty double standard.CrazyGuy said:
BlackJackal
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Do or Die- Still po pimpin, Can you smoke and ride, Mic Check
Twista-Get it wet, Emotions
3 6 Mafia- Gotta stay high
Biggy- One more chance, I'm fvckin you tonight
Pharrel- Frontin, Ass on Fire,
Snoop-Beautiful, It Aint no fun
Bizzy Bone- Fried day
Sean Paul- I'm still in love, When you gonna give it up to me
E-40- Tryin to get to you and that booty
DoggPound-Let's play house
LL Cool J- Hey Lover, Who do you love
.....These are some good joints for you.
So your assuming hu?All Im pointing is it seems like YOU whites are forgetting hip hop is black music and their culture.Im not going about skin im saying you whitepeople wanan be black,listening to black music sure its entertaining but what about white music?Back another 50years would mean slavery you idiot,actually it is ok if blackpeople seperate from whitepeople look at whitepeople did to them in the past and present.Loook around YOU whitepeople are also the ones who seperate themselves,remeber "Seggeration"backin the days?It was thought of by whitepeople,not blackpeople.I still see it in todays society aswell,of seperation.Wee said:
Stick to your white music!thx
So making people stick to their culture is seperation right?Your an idiot if you think that its people need to worship&stay to their culture,hip hop is black culture and their music,and you need to accept your culture.Wee said:
P.S. 50 years was slavery it was near the end when they were trying to ban it.But still blacks were still forced to work under the whitemen,rule its soo sad how you whites treated blacks back in the days&even now.Now you guys wanna listen to their music?When back then you guys made up a word calling them"Negros" Pathetic people,god bless.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.