"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hint? Or no hint? That is the question

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I was talking to this girl lastnight, we're pretty good friends. Somehow we got on the conversation of ex's and we were joking around then she got serious and said "[you] will make a fine boyfriend or husband one day. Any woman will be lucky to have you."

I tried dating her once but got rejected. As a matter of face, it was 2 weeks ago I got rejected. Should I take that as a hint or what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She is trying to reel you back into pursuing her just so she can feed her ego. She wants to feel "wanted" and "desired" and the easiest thing for her to feel that way is by making it look like she is giving you a hint.

Don't feed her ego!

You should have said, "Well then I guess you aren't going to be that lucky woman. Too bad since I always thought you deserved the best."

I don't know how burned you are from the rejection but if you are severely burned then don't say that. You may just make it sound very angry.

Now that I think about it, you could also say, "So do you know any women who are feeling lucky?" ;)

Yeah say that next time.
 
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