"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Highschool Forum: Help us redo the Highschool Bible!

Vincent

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Well as some of you may have noticed the highschool forum has way to many stickies. So the moderation staff has decided that it's probaly time to rework the highschool bible. We'll be adding more articles to the mix and making it better for everyone. We'll also integrate the rules and such all into one neat and organized post, but we need your help!

Now I'm sure, like me, most of you have a favorite post. Something that really struck a note and helped you out in a hard time. This can be anything. Something you've written or something written by someone else. The only real thing we ask is that is pertains to highschoolers, and preferably something that originated in the highscool forum.

So start gathering your favorite links and sending them to either me or TheVirtualMind since we're gonna be the one's spearheading the new bible. We won't be telling you which articles we pick and which we don't so you'll just have to wait and see.

Submit as many as you want, but please make a healthy list before sending us articles because PM space is limited and it's kinda annoying to have to go through a lot of PM's with only a few links.

Thanks a lot guys :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No. This is gonna be a "HS Only" bible. Stuff that made THIS forum great in the past. Key names to look for are: Lorzenzo, Whatsupwitdat, Eternal, The Antichrist_Superstar, Brazilian_Blues_Boy, Sammo, snycmaster, Jester, and some guy named Vincent.
 

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Vincent!
Ever had a big kahuna burger?
Want a bite? It's real tasty!
Well, you should try one some time.
Me? I can't usually get 'em, cos my girlfriend's a vegetarian, which pretty much makes me a vegetarian too. I do love the taste of a good burger..
 

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Krassus's "Become Great" post.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Send a link to the mods if you think it's worthy.
 

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This should be fun. : )

AS
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Step 1: Collect underpants
Step 2: ???
Step 3: Profit
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey-- Just an Idea--

Based on what i would call, and i dont think im alone here "DUMBASS POSTS" on this forum-- i think the new HS bible should be geared towards reducing them, to get noobs out of the mindset that this is a place to ask about a Specific "Girl Problem" that they may be having at any given time (you know the kinda thing im talking about) instead, supporting the mindset that this forum, and the whole board is about getting better with women and at life IN GENERAL

maybe even a "before you post, Pre-bible" if people wont make the effort to read the whole thing before asking if "Sarah in my english class likes me because she asks to suck me penis all the time?...."
 

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That is the idea behind the bible, but of course you always have those people who are too lazy to search and instead want specific answers for their specific problem, even though their specific problem is much more general then they'd think. So even if we have the best bible ever and it answers every question to the T, someone will still be lazy and make a dumb thread.

However if we can make a really good bible with lots of useful information geared towards highschoolers then we can hopefully eliminate some of the more general ones where people just get confused.

Keep the links coming people. We're working hard to get this rolling but we definetly have no ETA yet. The more you submit the better the bible will be.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Are most of the articles from the current hs bible going to be included? Also, when are you looking for this to be done by?
We're gonna review them and see if they still apply to the highschool forum and if they still fit well in the bible. I'd venture more towards yes then no however.

Like I said we have no ETA. It could be by end of july, end of the summer, end of the year. It's really hard to say right now. All the mods are very busy with life and can't devote much time to the site as we would like. I'd like this to be a group effort amongst the staff but we have a hard time finding time to work together, plus some mods are more devoted then others.
 

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Does the articles have to come from the High School forum?. The reason I'm asking because I have read many thread that will help Highschoolers understand woman and how to embrace their manhood. So we hightschoolers can stop wasting time on trying to understand women and do other important things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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