"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Highschool Dance (With a date)

Double_Diamonds

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Alright so I'm gonna get a date for this HS dance. It runs from 7 to 11. I only slow dance, no fast stuff any more. And the slow songs are rare but excellent (like don juans lol). So how could I fill up that time with her (7 to 11, 4 hours). I'm only 14 remember. I don't wanna be with her the whole night, that sounds AFC, but a few hours wouldnt hurt. Any tips for time filling?

I was thinking of leaving her after a while and doing Magic Tricks to people. That would AMAZE her. I am good at magic tricks, and I know that could HELP my game, not BE my game though.

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blienk

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Girls tend to complain about guys who will only slow dance, so you might want to re-think that. Magic tricks can be good, just make sure they'll really impress people.
 

NYC Dude

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Magic tricks are cool and all, but at a dance? Come on man, dances (at least where I come from) are basically sex with your clothes on, not many people want to get off the dance floor to see some magic tricks. And your decision to only slow dance, I can see that onyl hindering you. Sounds to me like you're too scared to dance the entire time, so you choose only to do it to certain songs. Getting a date for a dance is also pretty stupid if you're planning on doing magic tricks. If you were going to be dancing then transition after a slow dance into a makeout session, I could understand, but right now all I can see is it hurting your game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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