Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
YOu said none above the chest. I usually put it below my neck on my chest.Originally posted by E_ze05
the thing about cologne is that is that you gotta know how to use it......i would say to put enough on to repel bad smell....not so much it gives her a head ache..lol...none above the chest...and one on big woody(big in my case)
Wow I didn't really consider that girls might post on this site. lol. but then again it is the internet andanything goes. You are a don juan. I didn't think girls could be. lolOriginally posted by theNEWDJ
WTF??
To all you playas in training, it's true about the "axe" cologne spray. Trust me I'm a female and when i smelled this cologne an a guy the hairs on the back of my neck stood up. In the past I wasn't interested in this guy, but now since I received the "axe" effect, I can't stop thinking about him. The pheromones in this spray really work, and I'm not the only one who feels this way. While in a club fellas screw the $30 bottle of cologne, get a $5 can and watch what you reel in. - submitted by Almondjoy
This is from the website http://www.becomeaplayer.com/usertips.htm
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.