You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
YOu said none above the chest. I usually put it below my neck on my chest.Originally posted by E_ze05
the thing about cologne is that is that you gotta know how to use it......i would say to put enough on to repel bad smell....not so much it gives her a head ache..lol...none above the chest...and one on big woody(big in my case)
Wow I didn't really consider that girls might post on this site. lol. but then again it is the internet andanything goes. You are a don juan. I didn't think girls could be. lolOriginally posted by theNEWDJ
WTF??
To all you playas in training, it's true about the "axe" cologne spray. Trust me I'm a female and when i smelled this cologne an a guy the hairs on the back of my neck stood up. In the past I wasn't interested in this guy, but now since I received the "axe" effect, I can't stop thinking about him. The pheromones in this spray really work, and I'm not the only one who feels this way. While in a club fellas screw the $30 bottle of cologne, get a $5 can and watch what you reel in. - submitted by Almondjoy
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