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He said 18. Picture looks passable as 18, with zero evidence that she's younger than 18, this is allowed. Eighteen is also a teen. She could have lied, she could also not have lied. All current evidence we have about her age is OP stating she's 18, with absolutely no evidence to the contrary I'm going to assume OP speaks the truth.

You can have your judgements about fvcking young girls of legal age, but let your pedo accusations rest.
I totally agree serenity there is nothing wrong with sex with 18 y/o, but he needs to take down that picture asap. It appears it was taken without her consent in a place where there is an expectation of privacy. That is NUTS in this day and age to post that. Great job hooking up with such an 18 year old beauty lucianoM, but I'd advise to take the pic down immediately unless she agreed to the pic and you posting it on here, which I highly doubt. Cali is highly liberal and there might even be criminal laws against something like that. Revenge porn never used to be a crime, now it is. They are passing new laws all the time. BE CAREFUL. Never post anything you can't explain to the police.

Corrector is being sarcastic.

I was about to leave this forum for good, but I wanted to save luciano's ass by telling him to take down that pic asap. This forum is all over the place and hypocritical. They are calling myself, corrector, others, and the guy in my thread predators/creeps/pedos just for cold approaching woman and saying hello to people they think are over 18 asking for a date in one of my threads and then there are threads like this. I don't get it. This whole she has a father thing is absurd. Every woman has a father and it is irrelevant.

There is NOTHING wrong with having sex with an 18 year old no matter what your age is. She knows good touch from bad touch. Way past being innocent.

There are forces at play that want the age of consent to go to 21, then 26, then maybe 30. I'm not kidding. I don't think you understand where this is heading. Get ready to get treated like gays in Iran if you're a hetero man. There is an extended adolescence with extended educational requirements that's causing people to shift what people think is an "adult". 50 percent of people 18-29 now live at home. The only reason 18 is still legal for sex in the U.S. is because of the military. They need to be able to draft people.

Even 21-25 year old's are considered "kids" nowadays. You can be gay, trans, and love Whomever you want, unless you're an older man who likes younger women. They are shaming Dicaprio for dating a 24 year old and did a hit piece on him in vanity fair. They've called him a "predator". UNHEARD of talk years ago.

First is SHAME, then laws get passed eventually. People didn't used to think like this. The age keeps getting higher and higher and the goal posts shift.

The only way to fight back against this is content creators. The content creators really need to pick up on this whole age gap thing and age of consent. Once they raise the age of consent, it's over. They also need to address cold approach. This idea that women have in their head that a man(below 6 in looks) is not allowed to approach them one time to say hello in broad daylight because it's "harassment" is nonsense. They need to be educated of the law. You don't know if a woman will be open to your approach till you say hello.

WAKE UP!

Taylor the fiend did a good short....creepy=ugly. Stop letting woman looks shame us just for saying hello and shooting our shot.
 

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You guys be careful posting stuff like this online you know how dangerous it could be
Good job @LucianoM and @Pierce.Manhammer
I'm 38 and that gives me hope, but I also have to second what Eli is saying. You guys have to be really careful about posting pictures or any other personal information.
 

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I haven't followed the other thread many people are referring to here, so I don't know if this has been said or not, but the whole reason many women have been driving toward a shift in attitude toward older men dating younger women is due to female competition anxiety. As women age, they become increasingly anxious that they will lose their power and lose their man as their looks fade. They know they can't compete with a younger woman's beauty, and living a healthy lifestyle to keep themselves looking as good as possible is too much work so they create the narrative that it's wrong and predatory for there to be an age gap of more than a few years. If they can engrain this rule into today's moral standards, they feel they won't have to face their anxiety. Basically, their goal is to shame men into adhering to what suits older WOMEN, even though the younger women have no problem with an older guy dating a younger woman because those younger women like doing it. They enjoy the wisdom, experience, maturity, and stability an older man provides. Just as @Don of the north said, the extended adolescence is causing young men to be far more immature than previous generations - most of them have no social calibration because all they do is play video games and text people - they can't look a woman in the eyes and they have no masculinity. This only makes older men MORE attractive to younger women who mature faster than boys.

I can't stop third wave feminists from pushing their agenda into the current social norms, however, what I find inexcusable and revolting are the blue-pill INCEL white knights that come onto this forum and try to promote, encourage, and ENFORCE this feminist agenda. The whole purpose of this forum is to evaluate and discuss social norms, determine what makes sense and what doesn't, expose things that men have been brainwashed to believe are true but actually aren't, and encourage men to try to step out of that matrix in order to enjoy success and to spread the word to other men about all this so we can hopefully avoid shifting so far toward third wave feminism that things end up even worse than they already are. We get INCEL beta white knight feminist guys who have no success with women, masquerading as DJs coming in here who have never tried walking up to a stranger and talking to her. Then they have the nerve to tell people on this forum who have been doing it successfully for YEARS that it's wrong and won't work. We don't need that here. Those guys need to go to a SubReddit for feminism if they want to perpetuate male-brainwashing and made-up rules that don't make men OR WOMEN happy.

For the record, I am just as happy with my 105lb 36yo GF as I am with a 23yo cutie. I like slender, petite women with long legs and a cute face. When I'm out and about, I will talk to any woman of any LEGAL age who fits that description and I find attractive when I'm single. The problem is, most women don't keep themselves up. The younger ones are hot because even though most of them are lazy, they get away with it in their younger years. If a woman keeps herself up, she can be hot into her 40's.

Nice Job Luciano. You do you.
 

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I haven't followed the other thread many people are referring to here, so I don't know if this has been said or not, but the whole reason many women have been driving toward a shift in attitude toward older men dating younger women is due to female competition anxiety. As women age, they become increasingly anxious that they will lose their power and lose their man as their looks fade. They know they can't compete with a younger woman's beauty, and living a healthy lifestyle to keep themselves looking as good as possible is too much work so they create the narrative that it's wrong and predatory for there to be an age gap of more than a few years. If they can engrain this rule into today's moral standards, they feel they won't have to face their anxiety. Basically, their goal is to shame men into adhering to what suits older WOMEN, even though the younger women have no problem with an older guy dating a younger woman because those younger women like doing it. They enjoy the wisdom, experience, maturity, and stability an older man provides. Just as @Don of the north said, the extended adolescence is causing young men to be far more immature than previous generations - most of them have no social calibration because all they do is play video games and text people - they can't look a woman in the eyes and they have no masculinity. This only makes older men MORE attractive to younger women who mature faster than boys.

I can't stop third wave feminists from pushing their agenda into the current social norms, however, what I find inexcusable and revolting are the blue-pill INCEL white knights that come onto this forum and try to promote, encourage, and ENFORCE this feminist agenda. The whole purpose of this forum is to evaluate and discuss social norms, determine what makes sense and what doesn't, expose things that men have been brainwashed to believe are true but actually aren't, and encourage men to try to step out of that matrix in order to enjoy success and to spread the word to other men about all this so we can hopefully avoid shifting so far toward third wave feminism that things end up even worse than they already are. We get INCEL beta white knight feminist guys who have no success with women, masquerading as DJs coming in here who have never tried walking up to a stranger and talking to her. Then they have the nerve to tell people on this forum who have been doing it successfully for YEARS that it's wrong and won't work. We don't need that here. Those guys need to go to a SubReddit for feminism if they want to perpetuate male-brainwashing and made-up rules that don't make men OR WOMEN happy.

For the record, I am just as happy with my 105lb 36yo GF as I am with a 23yo cutie. I like slender, petite women with long legs and a cute face. When I'm out and about, I will talk to any woman of any LEGAL age who fits that description and I find attractive when I'm single. The problem is, most women don't keep themselves up. The younger ones are hot because even though most of them are lazy, they get away with it in their younger years. If a woman keeps herself up, she can be hot into her 40's.

Nice Job Luciano. You do you.
The thread is "absolute injustice, daygamer had both arms broken"

Many of the replies sounded like a hardcore anti male feminist reddit blaming the guy, calling men who date or even approach younger women as predators/creeps ect. It was really off the wall. Also, major manipulation and hypocricy going on of what was said by me and others to twist words. Some seemed to be justifying the guy having his arms broken.(which I'm not sure really happened anyway). Basically blaming the 28 year old guy for being attacked by a mob for saying hello.

I also notice some women(way over 18 too) are WAY less socially calibrated that they used to be. Some FREAK out at someone saying hello to them on a public space in broad daylight with 50 people in ear shot distance in a busy SAFE area. You can see it in their eyes. They are actually the ones that aren't socially calibrated. This is a millenial iphone generation that doesn't socialize. Millennials being 41 and under. Some women are totally cool with an approach and love, while others give the "serial killer" look and a tiny percent call the cops as any good karen would do. And your LOOKS level is what determines the likelihood of that nasty look. Women need to stop being such snowflakes. Our culture is messed up.
 
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The thread is "absolute injustice, daygamer had both arms broken"

Many of the replies sounded like a hardcore anti male feminist reddit blaming the guy, calling men who date or even approach younger women as predators/creeps ect. It was really off the wall. Also, major manipulation and hypocricy going on of what was said by me and others to twist words. Some seemed to be justifying the guy having his arms broken.(which I'm not sure really happened anyway). Basically blaming the 28 year old guy for being attacked by a mob for saying hello.

I also notice some women(way over 18 too) are WAY less socially calibrated that they used to be. Some FREAK out at someone saying hello to them on a public space in broad daylight with 50 people in ear shot distance in a busy SAFE area. You can see it in their eyes. They are actually the ones that aren't socially calibrated. This is a millenial iphone generation that doesn't socialize. Millennials being 41 and under. Some women are totally cool with an approach and love, while others give the "serial killer" look and a tiny percent call the cops as any good karen would do. And your LOOKS level is what determines the likelihood of that nasty look. Women need to stop being such snowflakes. Our culture is messed up.
I see this kind of attitude a lot in fringe communities. There's a constellation of self-imagined cool kids, who are convinced they're somehow above everyone else in the same foxhole, and that the mob will recognize this ill-established but very heartfelt distinction. Probably, this is unavoidable, since the sort of disagreeable and somewhat antisocial personality that gravitates to alternative communities generally isn't going to stop being disagreeable and antisocial upon arrival. It's why dissident movements of all stripes tend to be beset by petty infighting and consequently rarely accomplish anything.

Seduction communities in particular are notoriously attractive to dark triad types, especially narcissists. Hence, the common template: when I do "x," it's "alpha;" when "the losers" do "x," it's bad and they're crimping my indisputable style.
 
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I also notice some women(way over 18 too) are WAY less socially calibrated that they used to be. Some FREAK out at someone saying hello to them on a public space in broad daylight with 50 people in ear shot distance in a busy SAFE area. You can see it in their eyes. They are actually the ones that aren't socially calibrated. This is a millenial iphone generation that doesn't socialize. Millennials being 41 and under. Some women are totally cool with an approach and love, while others give the "serial killer" look and a tiny percent call the cops as any good karen would do. And your LOOKS level is what determines the likelihood of that nasty look. Women need to stop being such snowflakes. Our culture is messed up.
I believe this can happen though I personally haven't ever experienced it myself. Not a single time!! It might be because of the way I look. I don't look threatening and I'm not a beef-cake. I look kind of like Joseph Gordon-Levitt but with a short beard. If I looked like Jason Statham or Vinnie Jones, for example, I could imagine a higher percentage of women being afraid. Or if I was ugly lol.
 

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Nothing identifiable in my post as per usual. I always sanitize to protect the guilty. Never mind the consent was implicit and verbal…

Good job @LucianoM and @Pierce.Manhammer
I'm 38 and that gives me hope, but I also have to second what Eli is saying. You guys have to be really careful about posting pictures or any other personal information.
 

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Hey arent you the guy that posted in that other thread and was down on the guy who got his arms broken by the mob? Thanks for taking the bait.
Nope, I did post, but had absolutely nothing bad to say about the guy, all I said was collapsible self defense baton…
 

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It’s over for WhiteKnightsforIncelsIncels.

My judgments are about how nobody supported the chap on @Don of the north thread when his arms were broken for saying hello but the same people will cheer someone who is successful here. I see no issue of putting a mockery bait to get these people out of the woodwork and see who would start defending this and who posted critically on that other thread. There is no age gap issue on my end. There is unfairness issue that people who are not as successful, get the police called or get.attacked by mobs should also get some slack from people on here if you are going to celebrate this.
 

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Quitting tobacco and weed. Both things I can live without in 2023.
Beer is next. I have my last 4 tins in the fridge which I'll consume
tonight as I sit home alone on New years eve. I have a new video game
I want to spend a few hours on this evening to keep me occupied.
Absolutely don't want to go out.
 

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Quitting tobacco and weed. Both things I can live without in 2023.
Beer is next. I have my last 4 tins in the fridge which I'll consume
tonight as I sit home alone on New years eve. I have a new video game
I want to spend a few hours on this evening to keep me occupied.
Absolutely don't want to go out.
That is your highlight of 2022?
 

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I believe this can happen though I personally haven't ever experienced it myself. Not a single time!! It might be because of the way I look. I don't look threatening and I'm not a beef-cake. I look kind of like Joseph Gordon-Levitt but with a short beard. If I looked like Jason Statham or Vinnie Jones, for example, I could imagine a higher percentage of women being afraid. Or if I was ugly lol.
Bro, you're a 10/10 if that's the case. lol

Example of a typical session for me:

I approach one woman and clear stink eye with the filthiest looks imaginable just for saying hi. Next one thanks me and is super nice and tells me "thank you for approaching with me with such respect, I'm flattered with a big smile but she has a bf". Next one, I talk to for 10 minutes and great convo, but she tells me she has a husband(didn't see the ring). She loved the attention and super sweet. Bored housewife. I had to ask if she was single. She didn't even volunteer it.

Then a few approaches where I get "I have a b/f" immediately, but not rude Then maybe another stink eye/nasty chick. Once in a while I'll have a number success. Almost no direct insults towards me like some guys say they get. I've seen on some forums where guys complain about getting called ugly or something. Women are not direct like that. They won't directly insult you for the most part, but rarely will tell you to get lost basically. They are sneaky and do things like call the cops or talk crap behind your back. It's only in the feminist movies, where they are strong and beat up men twice their size. lol

There are women who get truly afraid (very rarely) and then there's women who can't stand the fact that an "ugly" man in their eyes had the nerve to approach them and freak out over it because they feel "creeped out". Feminist entitlement kicks in. Coddling women who get afraid from someone who says hello in a public place is a mistake. They need to toughen up. It's like having a child who's afraid of sleeping alone. They need to get away from that and learn to live.
I see this kind of attitude a lot in fringe communities. There's a constellation of self-imagined cool kids, who are convinced they're somehow above everyone else in the same foxhole, and that the mob will recognize this ill-established but very heartfelt distinction. Probably, this is unavoidable, since the sort of disagreeable and somewhat antisocial personality that gravitates to alternative communities generally isn't going to stop being disagreeable and antisocial upon arrival. It's why dissident movements of all stripes tend to be beset by petty infighting and consequently rarely accomplish anything.

Seduction communities in particular are notoriously attractive to dark triad types, especially narcissists. Hence, the common template: when I do "x," it's "alpha;" when "the losers" do "x," it's bad and they're crimping my indisputable style.
Yeah, well just look at all the petty red pill drama with them fighting each other rather than sticking for men's rights, which is what the mission should be

Also, I wish Fresh and fit and rich cooper and others would stop obsessing over "high value man" stuff. There's this message about "put the work in" and then women will come. Most men aren't going to be millionaires driving McClaren's or celebs and guys can get women without doing that. It's hard, but doable. They seem to have this message that young men can't get any women and they should wait till they are 30 because they don't have money yet. Do you know how many Indian software engineers making 200k have zero dating success? Go hang out with chad at the university. He's slaying it and is broke. Top 20 percent guys in looks don't need money to get a lot of top notch women. Mr Locario talks truth on that, but he's wrong that looks don't matter. Good looks makes is WAY easier. Common sense.
 

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Being an extrovert at university is probably the greatest unearned privilege on Earth. You'll see total dufus non-entities with 9/10 20 year olds, just because they happen to sit next to each other in class. But that's a whole other thing.
 

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I remember the Good Looking Loser forum had a private section for lay reports, it was not visible on Google and you had to log in to even access it. So many dudes put up nude pics of chicks they had slept with, perhaps SS should do the same because man I want to share some pics next year lol.
 

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That is your highlight of 2022?
Yes. I started the year as a relapsed smoker. I began smoking again through a combination of stress from
a job I hated and the fallout of my divorce. I had been quit for almost 9 years and then like an idiot I started
again in late 2021. By the summer of 2022 I was spending approximately £800 a month on smoking alone,
£350 on cigarettes and the rest on weed. I quit the sh1t job in June, the weed on 5th October and tobacco
on the 5th November. I have just gotten past the nicotine cravings 7 weeks from quitting, I didn't use any
patches pills or potions but I have used food as a substitute and there's been some weight gain. Quitting
beer will help with that since I consume about a 1000 calories a day in beer most days. I'll be back down to
170lbs again before the spring. I'm at about 200lbs currently.
 

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It appears it was taken without her consent in a place where there is an expectation of privacy.
She's not even slightly identifiable and with no identifying information posted alongside the picture. As long as she remains completely anonymous I see no issue.

My judgments are about how nobody supported the chap on @Don of the north thread when his arms were broken for saying hello but the same people will cheer someone who is successful here.
Drama from another thread bleeding into and hijacking another thread? That's even worse.
 
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