"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Highest quality and lowest quality women in the US by area

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Having been born and raised in the bay area... I agree...

Looks - I would say 90% of women are 7 or below. 8s and 9s are rare.

Personality - you get a heavy liberal attitude of promoting social justice, welfare of the people, etc. Who look down on the poor with a tremendous sense of entitlement.

It's very Orwellian... "there's nothing sure but the rich get rich and the poor get children, in the meantime, in-between time, ain't we got fun"
 

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Outside of miami, I find florida girls to generally be more over weight, more ugly overall and far worse personalities. I'm from st. Louis and the women are a lot hotter up there than fl and less damaged as well. The rest of rural missouri is basically the south. But Missouri, georgia, etc seem to have much better women than the junk we have here in fl.

I never seen fatter people and people with tats until I lived in fl.
Florida attracts the White Trash folks looking for a warm place to live. I think this is why it generally has good strip joints.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You done been invited bruh
I know work has just been crazy. One of these days...

but what I mean is I don’t think any geographical location can change a females trie nature. I understand some places have group think issues and such, but if you can isolate her she will revert. That’s my guess, I’ll test my theories sometime this year and take you up on your offer
 

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If you think SF sucks, don't move to Seattle either, it's famous for the 'Seattle Freeze' and people here are extremely flaky.
 

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If you think SF sucks, don't move to Seattle either, it's famous for the 'Seattle Freeze' and people here are extremely flaky.
I have actually had a great experience with women from Washington, they are a lot more down to earth and a lot less snotty/self-righteous.
 

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San Fran is late-stage capitalism gone to hell.

I live in a suburb of Minneapolis. Moved here from CT. The increase in quality was noticeable!
Yeah just wait until the Silicon Valley Mafia moves into MN and takes over, it will be worst than Austin.
 

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I have actually had a great experience with women from Washington, they are a lot more down to earth and a lot less snotty/self-righteous.
Depends on where they're from in WA.

The seattle area is almost as bad as portland: At least a quarter of the women on OLD here have purple hair syndrome and people are very blue pilled.

But step a foot out of seattle and everyone is way more down to earth.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I’ve been to probably 35 States and based on friendliness and looks together my top pick of where I have been would be Tennessee.
ah, that'd be, to me, middle to eastern Tenn, as I was born n' raised in west Tn, and the women there are fvcky if you ask me - it was not fun, there is a considerable difference to the attitude of the women where I'm at now who think more logically and clear-headed (as best as a woman can think logically and clear-headed) - they can see value better here and yes, value = me, they appraise my value very fine here
 

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ah, that'd be, to me, middle to eastern Tenn, as I was born n' raised in west Tn, and the women there are fvcky if you ask me - it was not fun, there is a considerable difference to the attitude of the women where I'm at now who think more logically and clear-headed (as best as a woman can think logically and clear-headed) - they can see value better here and yes, value = me, they appraise my value very fine here
My experience with southern women lines up with the blog post.

I'd say it has been very unpleasant with Alabama and Georgia girls but really good with South Carolina and Tennessee girls.
 

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Worst- Kentucky and WV. Lots of fat women who think they are princesses.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you a asian dude? if so, which city have you had the most success with girls?
I am indeed Asian. I've had success about anywhere but in the US, it has been

1. Minneapolis

2. Chicago

3. NYC (Manhattan and Brooklyn)

4. Miami, TONS of success here

5. Dallas
 
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