"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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high shool phone game tips

dj_jazzybrad

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Being in high school, me and everyone else texts a lot. I've only started calling girls recently. I read elsewhere on the forum that you shouldn't call and text in between dates because it builds dependency. Since i'm on summer break and don't see the girl every day, should I still adhere to this rule? I mean its not like we exactly date, its high school after all. And I'm not talking about any girl here specifically, just in general. :cheer:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jeffthechef

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There are so many exceptions. Why are you call/texting her? To set up your next date? Or simply to talk?

If it's simply to talk, you lose material for when you are talking to her in person. You become less of a mystery. If you talk too long, she might get bored or see you as a friend.

Call/text for a short period of time and not toooo frequent. Save your good stuff for your actual dates.

Hope this helped.:D
 

dj_jazzybrad

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yeh for real that helped. I was just texting to talk because that's what we do, haha. Bit I realized pretty quick that it was exactly like you said, it made our conversations more boring. I just stopped texting her and noticed an increase in her interest pretty quick... from now on talking/texting is probably just gonna be for setting up dates only. Thanks again
 

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Read my post, it may not answer your question directly but I certainly believe that there are some key pointers which will help improve your "phone game"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149616

Just as I said in the other thread, if you got any questions/comments feel free to drop me a PM. I tend to reply to them within 48 hours if its meaningful.
 
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