"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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high shool phone game tips

dj_jazzybrad

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Being in high school, me and everyone else texts a lot. I've only started calling girls recently. I read elsewhere on the forum that you shouldn't call and text in between dates because it builds dependency. Since i'm on summer break and don't see the girl every day, should I still adhere to this rule? I mean its not like we exactly date, its high school after all. And I'm not talking about any girl here specifically, just in general. :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jeffthechef

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There are so many exceptions. Why are you call/texting her? To set up your next date? Or simply to talk?

If it's simply to talk, you lose material for when you are talking to her in person. You become less of a mystery. If you talk too long, she might get bored or see you as a friend.

Call/text for a short period of time and not toooo frequent. Save your good stuff for your actual dates.

Hope this helped.:D
 

dj_jazzybrad

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yeh for real that helped. I was just texting to talk because that's what we do, haha. Bit I realized pretty quick that it was exactly like you said, it made our conversations more boring. I just stopped texting her and noticed an increase in her interest pretty quick... from now on talking/texting is probably just gonna be for setting up dates only. Thanks again
 

Axcell

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Read my post, it may not answer your question directly but I certainly believe that there are some key pointers which will help improve your "phone game"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149616

Just as I said in the other thread, if you got any questions/comments feel free to drop me a PM. I tend to reply to them within 48 hours if its meaningful.
 
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