"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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High Schoolers: Asking to go out

Shapoopie

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So, the most confusing thing for many people when they ask anybody out, chick or just their friends, do they ask their friends/chick or parents first?

This goes both ways, if you ask your friends/chick out first, your parents could still say no, but on the flip-side, if you get your parents okay, then ask your friends/chick to hang-outwhat if they can't? There's somethings, like watching a comedy movie, you just shouldn't do alone.

I say ask friends/chick first, but what's your take all?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you talking about dating, or just going out and making some plans?

Dating: Ignore the parents and ask the girl

Hanging out: Start making some plans, and if you don't drive, check with your parents before you set a definite time.
 

Shapoopie

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Like, I meant, who should you ask first? Always parents second or what?
 

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personally i think youre putting too much thought into this. if i make plans with a bud, its usually "dude come pick me up and we'll go to a club" and then we ask parents about it (usually i just tell my dad so and so is picking me up, i'll call you to check in) and then confirm it with a buddy

its not complicated dude
 

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Shapoopie said:
Like, I meant, who should you ask first? Always parents second or what?

Like I said. If its asking the girl out as in bf/gf, then thats totally girl first, parents never.

If its going to hang out, friend first, check with parents, confirm with friend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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