"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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High Schoolers: Asking to go out

Shapoopie

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So, the most confusing thing for many people when they ask anybody out, chick or just their friends, do they ask their friends/chick or parents first?

This goes both ways, if you ask your friends/chick out first, your parents could still say no, but on the flip-side, if you get your parents okay, then ask your friends/chick to hang-outwhat if they can't? There's somethings, like watching a comedy movie, you just shouldn't do alone.

I say ask friends/chick first, but what's your take all?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you talking about dating, or just going out and making some plans?

Dating: Ignore the parents and ask the girl

Hanging out: Start making some plans, and if you don't drive, check with your parents before you set a definite time.
 

Shapoopie

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Like, I meant, who should you ask first? Always parents second or what?
 

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personally i think youre putting too much thought into this. if i make plans with a bud, its usually "dude come pick me up and we'll go to a club" and then we ask parents about it (usually i just tell my dad so and so is picking me up, i'll call you to check in) and then confirm it with a buddy

its not complicated dude
 

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Shapoopie said:
Like, I meant, who should you ask first? Always parents second or what?

Like I said. If its asking the girl out as in bf/gf, then thats totally girl first, parents never.

If its going to hang out, friend first, check with parents, confirm with friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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